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Would you have walked on by?

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    Would you have walked on by?

    Walking to the supermarket at lunch time I have to cross a bridge over the docks, not a very high one but still, as I was I saw a "dishevelled man" walking towards me looking thoroughly miserable (but given the area everyone here does). As I walk past I notice blood on his hand, I walk by after 50 yds or so turn round and realise it was his wrist too, obviously he's had a go at them and made a good effort too. Thinking to myself should I call the police. I watched him stop, and start looking over the rails and by the time I get down a flight of stairs at the other side and got out from behind the trees to see the bridge again he was gone. 10 mins later walking the route back there is a policeman finishing a search of the area and getting back into his van. Someone had the better sense to do what I was procrastinating over.

    I know (probably) the fall could not have killed him, I know there was not enough blood to cause any immediate concern, and given I have once tried to take my own life, I know that if he wanted to kill himself no one could have stopped him merely delayed it, but again because I was once in that situation I know that sometimes it just takes one person to change the outcome of an event, and as I write this I know that should have been me to at least try.

    All of a sudden I have lost my appetite…
    Originally posted by Stevie Wonder Boy
    I can't see any way to do it can you please advise?

    I want my account deleted and all of my information removed, I want to invoke my right to be forgotten.

    #2
    If you see him again, tell him that his ID Suityou01 was locked due to inactivity.

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      #3
      Well done for sharing. You have no idea if the guy has come to any harm or not. You almost certainly could have done nothing.

      Personally I am an interfering busy body! Which can lead to other issues.

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        #4
        Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post

        Personally I am a permie with nothing better to do in life.
        FTFY

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          #5
          Originally posted by FatLazyContractor View Post
          Personally I am a permie with nothing better to do in life.
          I am a contractor again. And I have way too many demands on my time.

          Does not stop me helping people where I can. For all the good it does me. I wish I was a selfish twunt.

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            #6
            Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
            I am a contractor again. And I have way too many demands on my time.

            Does not stop me helping people where I can. For all the good it does me. I wish I was MF.
            FTFY, and good for you.

            Welcome back

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              #7
              Originally posted by FatLazyContractor View Post
              FTFY, and good for you.

              Welcome back
              I wonder if MF does courses in acting like a total imbecile?

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                #8
                I've saved someone from drowning, as expected they're embarrassed and not altogether happy about being saved

                In hindsight, I was lucky I wasn't sued for some spurious reason
                Socialism is inseparably interwoven with totalitarianism and the abject worship of the state.

                No Socialist Government conducting the entire life and industry of the country could afford to allow free, sharp, or violently-worded expressions of public discontent.

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                  #9
                  Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
                  I wonder if MF does courses in acting like a total imbecile?
                  Good opportunity for the OP to have hung around there and helped himself to the fellas watch & wallet afterwards.

                  #Opportunitymissed
                  What happens in General, stays in General.
                  You know what they say about assumptions!

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                    #10
                    I'd have probably tentatively tried an "are you OK?" and happily accepted a "yes" answer. Difficult to know what to do.

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