I'm at a crossroads and I need a push. I know that y'all are nothing if not candid, so maybe one of you can give me the verbal ass-kicking I need. Here's my personal situation:
* I've been with my girlfriend here in London for years and years.
* I can't bring myself to marry her
* I want to go back to NZ/Oz to be closer to my folks and my new neice whom I've never seen (and to escape the winter)
* My girlfriend is European and doesn't want to leave London
* She never wants to have kids
This is where it gets really dire:
* I can't bring myself to say goodbye, so my plan is to wait until she goes to the US for a short trip in November and then pack up and fly out.
* When she gets home I'm pretty sure she will be devastated.
* I don't know how I will handle being on my own after so many years with her, even though I've never been really happy with her.
Well, that's the gist of it. Any thoughts/comments are appreciated.
* I've been with my girlfriend here in London for years and years.
* I can't bring myself to marry her
* I want to go back to NZ/Oz to be closer to my folks and my new neice whom I've never seen (and to escape the winter)
* My girlfriend is European and doesn't want to leave London
* She never wants to have kids
This is where it gets really dire:
* I can't bring myself to say goodbye, so my plan is to wait until she goes to the US for a short trip in November and then pack up and fly out.
* When she gets home I'm pretty sure she will be devastated.
* I don't know how I will handle being on my own after so many years with her, even though I've never been really happy with her.
Well, that's the gist of it. Any thoughts/comments are appreciated.
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