Ex is leveraging the kids and being a 'woman' to keep most of the assets, and going forward child maintenance and spousal maintenance for life - the numbers are shocking. She has a job btw.
As least I can get out but kids have to put up ... they hate her ... she is nasty and cold but not abusive.
Am reconciled to asset split and child maintenance is no problem. Even giving her my paid off house, and buying another with big mortgage is a price worth paying.
Whats the chances of convincing the divorce court to let me have the kids ... I'm thinking I could employ an au-pair to drop and collect them from school. Then all the boys are happy !
Any experiences of au-pairs ? .... and I don't mean when you were 22 behind a bush !
.... probably a futile exercise given the UK courts !
As least I can get out but kids have to put up ... they hate her ... she is nasty and cold but not abusive.
Am reconciled to asset split and child maintenance is no problem. Even giving her my paid off house, and buying another with big mortgage is a price worth paying.
Whats the chances of convincing the divorce court to let me have the kids ... I'm thinking I could employ an au-pair to drop and collect them from school. Then all the boys are happy !
Any experiences of au-pairs ? .... and I don't mean when you were 22 behind a bush !
.... probably a futile exercise given the UK courts !
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