Dear Deidre marriage and kids don't interest me

**TestMangler** · 31 October 2011, 12:07

Dear Deidrie,

I was watching my next door neighbour's daughter sunbathing topless in their back garden. As I stood at our upstairs window knocking one out, I became aware that my wife was standing behind me, just watching me. Do you think she could be some kind of pervert ?

**Support Monkey** · 31 October 2011, 12:08

There are more than enough unwanted kids in the world, if your not interested why bring them into the world, if you don't want them don't have them just to fit in

**Support Monkey** · 31 October 2011, 12:10

Originally posted by TestMangler View Post

Dear Deidrie,

I was watching my next door neighbour's daughter sunbathing topless in their back garden. As I stood at our upstairs window knocking one out, I became aware that my wife was standing behind me, just watching me. Do you think she could be some kind of pervert ?

You can live in hope

**SimonMac** · 31 October 2011, 12:10

I think it should be mandatory that a large number of the people on here should be banned from having kids, just saying like

**Spacecadet** · 31 October 2011, 12:24

Originally posted by Bumfluff View Post

Just wondered if anyone when they were in the mid 30's still was not interested in marriage or kids, and if that was the case did that ever change ?

In my 20's even late 20's I wasn't interested in marriage kids net result split with girlfriend of 8 years, thought it was just a phase and I would grow into the marriage / kids thing. Now mid / late 30's I'm still not feeling the marriage and kids thing and looks like my current relationship of a few years may go the same way as the previous. I'm pretty selfish and just like doing my own things, when I want, I enjoy having no commitments is that wrong ?

Starting to think may be I'm just not the type for marriage and kids ever or is it just because I've not met the one ?

What do you see yourself doing for your 60th Birthday?

**TheFaQQer** · 31 October 2011, 12:28

Not everyone is for marriage. Not everyone is for kids. Not everyone is for marriage and kids.

I can't see my sister-in-law getting married and having kids - she (and her boyfriend) dote on my children, but they aren't really the marrying / children-having kind.

My cousin has been living with her partner for 20+ years (I guess) - they never wanted to get married, and they don't want children.

Each to their own - you shouldn't feel the need to spawn just because society indicates that you should.

**alreadypacked** · 31 October 2011, 12:28

Originally posted by Bumfluff View Post

Just wondered if anyone when they were in the mid 30's still was not interested in marriage or kids, and if that was the case did that ever change ?

In my 20's even late 20's I wasn't interested in marriage kids net result split with girlfriend of 8 years, thought it was just a phase and I would grow into the marriage / kids thing. Now mid / late 30's I'm still not feeling the marriage and kids thing and looks like my current relationship of a few years may go the same way as the previous. I'm pretty selfish and just like doing my own things, when I want, I enjoy having no commitments is that wrong ?

Starting to think may be I'm just not the type for marriage and kids ever or is it just because I've not met the one ?

If you are happy, fine, just remember to tell the next gf.

**Halo Jones** · 31 October 2011, 12:29

Thought about having kids at 18-25
25-30 decided kids were not really want I want
Married BBG at 35 (after 19 years with BBG)
Still kid free & happy with it

I like my life & not having to spend my hard earned pennies on others

Am I selfish: nope I am a realist.

**Lockhouse** · 31 October 2011, 12:36

Never felt like having kids, Acquired three step-kids along the way. Still never felt like having kids but wouldn't change a thing. Funny how it all works out.

Dear Deidre marriage and kids don't interest me