When your wife wants a divorce, give her everything she wants

[BrilloPad]

Oh BLESS!!!

Is there some point you are trying to make?

[MaryPoppins]

Personally if it ever happened to me I'd be happy to pay whatever for the kids. Mrs not so.

Got a mate who pays bugger all for his daughter. Hes self-employed and manages to wriggle out of it. His ex is laid back and just doesnt force the issue - hes got access when he wants etc. Doesnt make any sense to me at all.

Then again got another mate whos getting screwed by his ex for a fortune. And it all ended because she was paying hide the sausage.

This seems wrong to me. As a woman, you can screw around and still get to keep the house/kids/income. If you ask me in this case you should get bugger all.

What doesn't make sense? This is precisely what happened in my situation, and if my son's father ever changed his mind and wanted contact, I'd more than happily facilitate that.

[MicrosoftBob]

What doesn't make sense? This is precisely what happened in my situation, and if my son's father ever changed his mind and wanted contact, I'd more than happily facilitate that.

Good for you, the one thing that's often overlooked are the children

I don't see my kids as my ex wants to be awkward, and it's not worth fighting over as the only winner would be the legal profession

[filthy1980]

this thread has me scared, going start being nicer to the missus now

[GlenW]

Good for you, the one thing that's often overlooked are the children

I don't see my kids as my ex wants to be awkward, and it's not worth fighting over as the only winner would be the legal profession

To see your children isn't worth fighting over?
They are probably better off not seeing you if this is your attitude.

[vetran]

I watch it turn to rats from afar and every time I look at the missus and realise I love her a bit more, she maybe crazy (which explains putting up with me) but she is a lot less crazy than some ex wives.

[Pondlife]

I watch it turn to rats from afar and every time I look at the missus and realise I love her a bit more, she maybe crazy (which explains putting up with me) but she is a lot less crazy some ex wives.

She reads your posts on here doesn't she.

[vetran]

She reads your posts on here doesn't she.

she said I could post.

no unfortunately she is obsessed with pictures of cats & brats so its facebook for her.

[psychocandy]

Got to be fair does make you think sometimes. When you've got a few kids, married a long time and then you think how it'd turn out if you got divorced and the mrs played hardball.

Chances are mrs would get house, shedloads of your dosh, and you'd end up living sad and alone in a flat desperately trying to get access to see your kids. Makes you think sometimes.

[Magpie252]

To see your children isn't worth fighting over?
They are probably better off not seeing you if this is your attitude.

There is no price I wouldn't pay to have access to my son