Originally posted by vetran
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In what language is this NOT a threat
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"You’re just a bad memory who doesn’t know when to go away" JR -
Glad we made up a prenuptial agreement. But was made up outside of the UK, not sure if it will stand in court hereComment
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Originally posted by Eirikur View PostGlad we made up a prenuptial agreement. But was made up outside of the UK, not sure if it will stand in court hereComment
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He's better of sorting out his affairs so if the kids choose they can come and live with him.
+1 to Vetran, also point out that you have the court documents and if she believes you committed perjury (you didn't did you?) then go ahead. She won't get a legal aid solicitor for that claim and there's not a no-win no-fee shark that would take it either. You have paid/are paying your dues and should have sufficient access to your children to ensure they are being looked after properly (with your maintenance).Comment
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Originally posted by NigelJK View PostBang on the money there.
+1 to Vetran, also point out that you have the court documents and if she believes you committed perjury (you didn't did you?) then go ahead. She won't get a legal aid solicitor for that claim and there's not a no-win no-fee shark that would take it either. You have paid/are paying your dues and should have sufficient access to your children to ensure they are being looked after properly (with your maintenance).Comment
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Originally posted by vetran View Postdid you get a final settlement in writing?
Can she identify where the money she believes you are hiding came from? Would you open your accounts to the CSA or court appointed expert (not hers).
Can you get her to mediation or at least offer.
Surely if you are seen to be reasonable she has to pay for the lawyer?
You started seeing someone else recently that seems to bring the nutty out in the ex.
Mediation on what - to offer to pay more than I had to under the already finalised court order?
the news about seeing someone else did come out unexpectly about 2 months ago.
Originally posted by SueEllen View PostHe needs his head examined if he's going to buy her a property to live in. There is nothing wrong with them living in rental accommodation until she sorts out her job prospects and if she never sorts them out it's her own tough luck.
He's better of sorting out his affairs so if the kids choose they can come and live with him.
Originally posted by NigelJK View PostBang on the money there.
+1 to Vetran, also point out that you have the court documents and if she believes you committed perjury (you didn't did you?) then go ahead. She won't get a legal aid solicitor for that claim and there's not a no-win no-fee shark that would take it either. You have paid/are paying your dues and should have sufficient access to your children to ensure they are being looked after properly (with your maintenance).
Originally posted by Bee View PostThis kind of divorce cases where the parents use the kids as a war weapon makes me sick.This default font is sooooooooooooo boring and so are short usernamesComment
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Originally posted by MPwannadecentincome View PostI can open my accounts to whoever a court approves but her issue is going to be about hidden money I suspect - but I don't have any hidden money.
Mediation on what - to offer to pay more than I had to under the already finalised court order?
the news about seeing someone else did come out unexpectly about 2 months ago.
I agree but she claims no-one will rent to her as she is not working - of course this is rubbish but it took her more than a year to find a proper rental in the meantime she was in a B&B. Oh and don't forget the Thatcher generation "ownership" is "better".
Yup no perjury so no basis for the court to approve a freezing order, hence it is just a threat. Strangely she is talking to a no win no fee shark so I don't know what lies she has told them.
I am already :
Its all nasty. friends & relatives have been through similar but most times the kids figure out who was unreasonable when they get older. Most I know have turned out alright where their parent showed they loved them.Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.Comment
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Originally posted by MPwannadecentincome View Post
I agree but she claims no-one will rent to her as she is not working - of course this is rubbish but it took her more than a year to find a proper rental in the meantime she was in a B&B. Oh and don't forget the Thatcher generation "ownership" is "better".
Another reason not to buy her a property for the kids is that you presume she is going to shack up or remarry - poor person - and then she will be tied to the property in a particular which will cause her difficulties in her new relationship. If she and the other person decides to buy a house together you will still be giving her a similar amount of money until the kids are move out to live with you or become 18.
Originally posted by MPwannadecentincome View PostYup no perjury so no basis for the court to approve a freezing order, hence it is just a threat. Strangely she is talking to a no win no fee shark so I don't know what lies she has told them."You’re just a bad memory who doesn’t know when to go away" JRComment
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Stop listening and talking to her. This is what solicitors are for. At some point, you have to realise that the dialogue has completely broken down.
It took me many years to learn that lesson.Comment
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