How old is he? Is "wanting him out" an option? It seems unlikely that it will improve his outcome.
If his sister is 5, it's possible he's feeling "less loved" - small children do necessarily get a lot more attention, and teenagers aren't mature enough to cope with those sort of emotions.
When's the last time you said something positive to him? (Not a criticism, but something to think about if the last few months/years have been all about what a problem he is).
When I sought help with my eldest, it surprised me that when he was asked to tell the shrink five good things about himself, he could only come up with one.
Try and find the good in him and praise it.
It does sound like you need professional help - good luck, and sympathies.
If his sister is 5, it's possible he's feeling "less loved" - small children do necessarily get a lot more attention, and teenagers aren't mature enough to cope with those sort of emotions.
When's the last time you said something positive to him? (Not a criticism, but something to think about if the last few months/years have been all about what a problem he is).
When I sought help with my eldest, it surprised me that when he was asked to tell the shrink five good things about himself, he could only come up with one.
Try and find the good in him and praise it.
It does sound like you need professional help - good luck, and sympathies.
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