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    #71
    Originally posted by GJABS View Post
    Nope, I've changed my mind.
    Research I've done tells me that a major part of the damage that results from hiding things, comes from the shame that you feel, and internalise. So in regard to these two things, I've decided to come out about them. Literally.

    1. I've drawn the conclusion that I am now 90% gay - with a preference for young men in their 20's, and

    2. I had a life-long addiction to porn; in recent years gay porn featuring said young men.
    For the past month I've been porn free, and intended this to be permanent.

    There, I've said it. My shame dissolves into the ether.

    I don't want to make a big song and dance about it, as some gay men have the need to do (I know it annoys the heterosexuals - and some other gays).
    One thing I have noticed is that nobody else on here is out as gay. There must be a reason, but I don't know what it is.

    No "congratulatory" replies please - abusive ones are the only ones that are acceptable
    And as for the softer homophobia you get on here, references to sasguru or suity "doing tricks down the docks" with sailors, don't you dare stop
    Glad you got to the “Top” or “bottom” of this issue


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      #72
      Originally posted by ladymuck View Post
      I'd like to think the ones on CUK who haven't outed themselves just simply don't feel the need to. We're all equally intolerant of each other. Sometimes that spills over into quite a mean slagging match but it seems that most of the time we all rub along just fine knowing that everyone gets treated with a decent level of contempt.
      Womansplaining bint!
      Old Greg - In search of acceptance since Mar 2007. Hoping each leap will be his last.

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        #73
        not outing - well its not that important.

        remember wise words from friends of Socrates



        As to being gay - whatever floats your boat, just don't crash into mine or become a pirate.
        Always forgive your enemies; nothing annoys them so much.

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          #74
          Originally posted by Zigenare View Post
          Are you really sure you want a cock up your arse?
          At risk of providing too much information, I haven't done that yet!
          But the gay world is quite kinky - many guys enjoy a multitude of objects - a cock being but one of them

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            #75
            I thought that one reason guys "went gay" is because they couldn't pull girls. (E.g . men in prison without access to women.)
            Indeed. I call it the Mobile syndrome, after the rugby song In Mobile, verse 2. If deprived of their preferred sexual outlets lots of males will look for something else. Probably why all those paedos among Catholic priests.

            "In Mobile" Song Lyrics and Music Score

            PS Tho not sure I'd fancy keyholes or knotholes in the floor.
            bloggoth

            If everything isn't black and white, I say, 'Why the hell not?'
            John Wayne (My guru, not to be confused with my beloved prophet Jeremy Clarkson)

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              #76
              Originally posted by GJABS View Post
              Nope, I've changed my mind.
              Research I've done tells me that a major part of the damage that results from hiding things, comes from the shame that you feel, and internalise. So in regard to these two things, I've decided to come out about them. Literally.
              "I can put any old tat in my sig, put quotes around it and attribute to someone of whom I've heard, to make it sound true."
              - Voltaire/Benjamin Franklin/Anne Frank...

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                #77
                Originally posted by vetran View Post
                not outing - well its not that important.

                remember wise words from friends of Socrates



                As to being gay - whatever floats your boat, just don't crash into mine or become a pirate.
                I'm sooo looking forward to the new one!
                "I can put any old tat in my sig, put quotes around it and attribute to someone of whom I've heard, to make it sound true."
                - Voltaire/Benjamin Franklin/Anne Frank...

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                  #78
                  Originally posted by cojak View Post
                  Now you give him a hug!

                  You wouldn't when he was hetero, would you? Oh no, you had to wait for him to bat for the other side!
                  Old Greg - In search of acceptance since Mar 2007. Hoping each leap will be his last.

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                    #79
                    Originally posted by Zigenare View Post
                    Now you give him a hug!

                    You wouldn't when he was hetero, would you? Oh no, you had to wait for him to bat for the other side!
                    Well of course, it's much less likely to be mistaken for consent now

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                      #80
                      Originally posted by Zigenare View Post
                      Now you give him a hug!

                      You wouldn't when he was hetero, would you? Oh no, you had to wait for him to bat for the other side!
                      This is all part of my sinster plan for female domination!

                      <joke>

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