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    #31
    Originally posted by northernladyuk View Post
    Political correctness gone mad.
    +1

    Where is Prince Philip when we need a pithy quote about the Boer War?

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      #32
      Originally posted by northernladuk View Post
      Totally. Although a bit different when it's touched you. It also doesn't mean that person isn't a friend so no need to get rid, just got this one badly wrong.

      But yeah, ignoring rathering trying to win the Internet is probably the better approach.
      Any of my FB friends posts nonsense they get de-friended. Either of them. And I have to pay both to be my FB friends....

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        #33
        I know. The level of bilge on this one is grim and yes I guess if it's an issue close to your heart it's harder to ignore. I will give you that one!
        Originally posted by northernladuk View Post
        Totally. Although a bit different when it's touched you. It also doesn't mean that person isn't a friend so no need to get rid, just got this one badly wrong.

        But yeah, ignoring rathering trying to win the Internet is probably the better approach.
        Sent from my SM-G960F using Contractor UK Forum mobile app
        Practically perfect in every way....there's a time and (more importantly) a place for malarkey.
        +5 Xeno Cool Points

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          #34
          Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
          Any of my FB friends posts nonsense they get de-friended. Either of them. And I have to pay both to be my FB friends....
          FB is dead - Instagram is where it's at. Every time I log onto FB these days it's just full of people getting upset at what's in the news. Insta is very rose tinted I'll agree but I'll take that over incessant complaining any day.
          "Is someone you don't like allowed to say something you don't like? If that is the case then we have free speech."- Elon Musk

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            #35
            Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
            Any of my FB friends posts nonsense they get de-friended. Either of them. And I have to pay both to be my FB friends....
            Yeah, about that, your last cheque bounced!
            Old Greg - In search of acceptance since Mar 2007. Hoping each leap will be his last.

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              #36
              Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
              +1

              Where is Prince Philip when we need a pithy quote about the Boer War?
              Will I do?

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                #37
                Originally posted by BrilloPad View Post
                The CPS were damned whatever they did.

                But all domestic violence must be severley dealt with. Oh wait, the victim was a man so that fine. Carry on.
                It could be different in England&Wales, but in Scotland the prosecution service progress cases based upon the merit of the case and level of evidence. The wishes of the victim or perpetrator aren't taken into account due to bias, be it psychological or monetary.

                The CPS were correct to progress this case. The person inflicting abuse upon another was clearly in the wrong and is likely to have had other issues. The fact this person was a woman, a tv presenter and very active on social media has nothing to do with the facts of the cases or merits for binning it. It's common for rape victims to try retract a case due to fear, 'love' (not the type of love I a familiar with, certainly) and a whole host of psychological trauma that may make it seem easier to ignore than to face head on - understandably.

                I appreciate you were not suggesting either option as best but I thought it a good idea to highlight that the police charge people based on a crime being committed and not based on the wishes of the victim/recipient.

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                  #38
                  Originally posted by rogerfederer View Post
                  It could be different in England&Wales, but in Scotland the prosecution service progress cases based upon the merit of the case and level of evidence. The wishes of the victim or perpetrator aren't taken into account due to bias, be it psychological or monetary.

                  The CPS were correct to progress this case. The person inflicting abuse upon another was clearly in the wrong and is likely to have had other issues. The fact this person was a woman, a tv presenter and very active on social media has nothing to do with the facts of the cases or merits for binning it. It's common for rape victims to try retract a case due to fear, 'love' (not the type of love I a familiar with, certainly) and a whole host of psychological trauma that may make it seem easier to ignore than to face head on - understandably.

                  I appreciate you were not suggesting either option as best but I thought it a good idea to highlight that the police charge people based on a crime being committed and not based on the wishes of the victim/recipient.
                  To which the only question I would ask is how often does this occur outside the glare of the media...
                  merely at clientco for the entertainment

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                    #39
                    Originally posted by rogerfederer View Post
                    The CPS were correct to progress this case. The fact this person was a woman has nothing to do with the facts of the cases or merits for binning it.
                    It has everything to do with it.

                    #HeToo #EverydaySexism

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                      #40
                      Originally posted by northernladuk View Post
                      There is one of these tag your mates things going on on my FB at the moment and it's got me proper wound up.

                      Starts off saying ladies fix your crowns and goes on with some guff about not letting people tear us down. Post a picture of happy times, link 50 lady friends and tag one person to carry on. They the attach a picture of them having a good time.

                      There is so much wrong with this I have no idea where to start. F*****ing fuming.
                      I've seen that too, some women on my FB just circlejerk with a constant stream of stuff like that, telling themselves (and the world) what they deserve and how strong they are etc.

                      Maybe if I post that agents won't tear me down and I deserve 700/day enough times it'll magically happen

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