Is she the one?

[Lucy]

Nothing lasts forever. Who goes into these things thinking "thats it forever"?

Is it more realistic to think "Yes, i love this person and will do right by them, but if a drunk school leaver offered to suck me off at some point...i might say yes"?

I joke, of course. But my point is, i feel an overwhelming sense of fatality in this decision? I take it seriously ...

You are right to take it seriously and if you have to come here and ask us, you answer is 'no'.

ps. grow some balls.

[cailin maith]

Nothing lasts forever. Who goes into these things thinking "thats it forever"?
Is it more realistic to think "Yes, i love this person and will do right by them, but if a drunk school leaver offered to suck me off at some point...i might say yes"?

I joke, of course. But my point is, i feel an overwhelming sense of fatality in this decision? I take it seriously ...

Thats the problem - people don't think its forever and know they can have an exit strategy.

My personal view is it's bollocks - it should be forever and if you don't think it will be right at this, the very beginning then you are on to a loser already.

[Advocate]

Does her dad own a brewery?

work with/for the mafia/hitmen/Yakuza/Jehovahs Witnesses?

[contractor79]

I read somewhere that 1.5-2 years is when the lust runs out.

[FiveTimes]

Would you buy her 50 roses and get them sent to clientco ?

[aussielong]

Are you happy now?

Not 100%. But come one, im a programmer, im always going to find fault in everything. i think it all through too much. and when i go the opposite way and indulge my senses, i do it without restraint and end up in trouble

Can you see yourself being happy for as long as you're with her?

I've been a lot worse off, in the utter gutter. To me this relationship it great but i've sought out such a situation and i think i can do better if i try harder but i am 35, and dont want to f**k myself over because ive got too cocky

[contractor79]

Would you be happy with how she'd bring up your kids?

[Xenophon]

My advice:

You know when you know.

P.S. Do NOT under ANY circumstances take relationship advice from me.

[FiveTimes]

Would you be happy with how she'd bring up your kids?

Maybe that's why she has said marry me now

[Moscow Mule]

Does this really belong here?

You're asking a group of anonymous geeks about your love life? Are you sure you want an answer from us lot?