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    #21
    WTAS. You're not doing either of you any favours by prolonging it. Unless there's a very good reason why she's more emotionally unstable now, there's no reason to think it will be any different next time. As long as you respond, she'll hang on to the hope that you still like her. Cut off, no contact, or it will just drag on and on. If her friend was there, it really doesn't sound like she wanted to kill herself - she just wants you to show you care. Unfortunately that's probably the worst thing you can do. I bet if you spoke to her friend, she'd probably agree.

    And enjoy your holiday!

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      #22
      We need a pic to better advise, if she is a munter leave the hassle, if she is a 5-7 keep it casual, anything 8 or over put up with the drama for as long as she has her looks
      Originally posted by Stevie Wonder Boy
      I can't see any way to do it can you please advise?

      I want my account deleted and all of my information removed, I want to invoke my right to be forgotten.

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        #23
        Originally posted by RedSauce View Post
        The girl has been through some horrible ordeals in her life, her dad abandoned her, her ex put her in hospital on numerous occasions, she struggles to bring up 2 small children and juggle a job.

        The doctors aren't sure if she will pull through, she was only under observation then a couple of hours ago her friend phoined me and said she was being put on a ventilator as her organs were shutting down. To me that sounds like the start of the end.
        Horrible situation.

        But if you cancel your holiday, and she pulls through, what then?

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          #24
          It won't end well whatever you do so the best bet is to get out and save yourself.
          While you're waiting, read the free novel we sent you. It's a Spanish story about a guy named 'Manual.'

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            #25
            I've just phoned the hospital as her friends phone is dead. The nurse seemed quite confident she will pull through, said she was intubated as the drugs had made her drowsy and was struggling to breath.

            I agree she needs help, she is such a good person just crazy.

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              #26
              Originally posted by RedSauce View Post
              The girl has been through some horrible ordeals in her life, her dad abandoned her, her ex put her in hospital on numerous occasions, she struggles to bring up 2 small children and juggle a job.

              The doctors aren't sure if she will pull through, she was only under observation then a couple of hours ago her friend phoined me and said she was being put on a ventilator as her organs were shutting down. To me that sounds like the start of the end.
              Does she have a sister that should the worse happen you can get a sympathy bonk off?
              Failing that - what's her mum like?
              How fortunate for governments that the people they administer don't think

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                #27
                Originally posted by mudskipper View Post
                WTAS. You're not doing either of you any favours by prolonging it. Unless there's a very good reason why she's more emotionally unstable now, there's no reason to think it will be any different next time. As long as you respond, she'll hang on to the hope that you still like her. Cut off, no contact, or it will just drag on and on. If her friend was there, it really doesn't sound like she wanted to kill herself - she just wants you to show you care. Unfortunately that's probably the worst thing you can do. I bet if you spoke to her friend, she'd probably agree.

                And enjoy your holiday!
                This ^^

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                  #28
                  Ignore the fictional girl, her fictional friends, the fictional hospital, and enjoy the fictional holiday.
                  Originally posted by MaryPoppins
                  I hadn't really understood this 'pwned' expression until I read DirtyDog's post.

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                    #29
                    If this is real then surely you should be asking your real mates who know you both. If it's fake then congratulations on your saddest fu<ker of the week award - and it's still only Tuesday.

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                      #30
                      Originally posted by RedSauce View Post
                      I was in a relationship with a girl until december when she ended it

                      <snip>

                      Mid-April she got back in contact
                      Ok we're still in February.

                      Originally posted by RedSauce View Post
                      The doctors aren't sure if she will pull through, she was only under observation then a couple of hours ago her friend phoined me and said she was being put on a ventilator as her organs were shutting down. To me that sounds like the start of the end.
                      Right.

                      Originally posted by RedSauce View Post
                      The nurse seemed quite confident she will pull through
                      Right so the doctors say she might not pull through and her organs are shutting down.

                      The nurse disagrees with the doctors.
                      Knock first as I might be balancing my chakras.

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