Feminatsi wants cake and then some...

[Gibbon]

Methinks you've been reading too much Jilly Cooper!

Well I do like a 'rider'!

[LondonManc]

This happens so very, very rarely that it's practically a non issue.

The Eastenders storyline is that the girl got drunk, flirted with two guys and went to bed with one of them consensually. She went to sleep/passed out and when she came to, the other was on top of her. Assuming the facts of the case as presented to the viewers are correct, then that is rape even if she was snogging him earlier in the evening.


Even if 5% of rape claims are invented, that means 95% are not. And it's the guys you're worrying about??

Ah, the Ched Evans case then.

[shaunbhoy]

If you can't tell, then best refrain.

Easy for YOU to say. Your right hand is never likely to call the Plod the morning after.

[LondonManc]

20 years ago, when newly single I never had this problem, first time sex I always let the girl 'lead'. If I felt they were unsure, I would just leave it at that. If I was fully engorged, off to the bathroom for a wank, simples. If I was pissed beyond reason then sex wouldn't be happening.

If she wakes up in the morning and sees that your more Jeremy Clarkson than Jeremy Renner and claims she didn't consent, you're still stuffed.

[Gibbon]

If she wakes up in the morning and sees that your more Jeremy Clarkson than Jeremy Renner and claims she didn't consent, you're still stuffed.

But that never happened due to my good looks and gentlemanly conduct. You, with that paranoia, are very much at risk!